HELP!How to introduce my chastity cage to my wife?
Hi everyone! I here in need of some advise! I'm about to present a chastity device to my wife (bought one a little bit larger than I needed, 11cm, but I'm a grower so it restrain some of my erection) and I need some advice on how to approach on that,
I got a chastity cage, a butt plug and a 14cm black dildo (already try it and it feels awesome, my first dildo!) that I pretend to show to her with an excuse that it is to please her when im locked, I give her multiple orgasms while having sex (orally and penetrating) and our marriage is all good (and monogamous, as we prefer), I'm going to tell her about the cage first so I don't throw a lot in her mind in just one time and end it up scaring her
I'm planning on bring it up as a surprise, show her the toys and explain to her that I would like it to try something that Im curious for some years now (before I meet her) but aways was ashamed about it, and that she gave me confidence to open up and share something that I never told anyone, tell her that "kink" is more about to please her in any way she wants it and put her in control.
I plan to buy some oils and massage her if she's ok with all(she loves it) and make this first experience more about her than about me, telling her that we do EVERY SINGLE THING that she wants to.
I'm never shared anything like that with her, i crossdress occasionally when I'm alone, I like to play with my ass but always alone and never told her, the thought never crossed her mind as she sees me as a strong male that always protected her.
but she is very open minded, she understands that a gay person is someone who's attracted for the same sex, so I know that I can show her that I'm not gay and I'm not want to leave her or will cheat her with a men.
Any advices and tips or comments are very, very welcome!
I got a chastity cage, a butt plug and a 14cm black dildo (already try it and it feels awesome, my first dildo!) that I pretend to show to her with an excuse that it is to please her when im locked, I give her multiple orgasms while having sex (orally and penetrating) and our marriage is all good (and monogamous, as we prefer), I'm going to tell her about the cage first so I don't throw a lot in her mind in just one time and end it up scaring her
I'm planning on bring it up as a surprise, show her the toys and explain to her that I would like it to try something that Im curious for some years now (before I meet her) but aways was ashamed about it, and that she gave me confidence to open up and share something that I never told anyone, tell her that "kink" is more about to please her in any way she wants it and put her in control.
I plan to buy some oils and massage her if she's ok with all(she loves it) and make this first experience more about her than about me, telling her that we do EVERY SINGLE THING that she wants to.
I'm never shared anything like that with her, i crossdress occasionally when I'm alone, I like to play with my ass but always alone and never told her, the thought never crossed her mind as she sees me as a strong male that always protected her.
but she is very open minded, she understands that a gay person is someone who's attracted for the same sex, so I know that I can show her that I'm not gay and I'm not want to leave her or will cheat her with a men.
Any advices and tips or comments are very, very welcome!
1 year ago
